gosh men are idoits. yesterday my boyfriend just had tell me that he done coke when we frist got together and we were living with his sister. he let me set there at his sister house wondering were he was if he was okay and what not so he can do coke. which he knows thats going to up set me. then to make it wrose he tells me while he drunk. he not supose to drink any more. we just got into a huge fright about it last weekend and we broke up. we just got back together. so i was pretty upset that he was drinking and then he tells me that knowing im upset. its like he has to make it wrose. befor he even trys to make it better. im so upset i dont know what i should say or if im even have a right to be mad about he doing coke.
god why couldnt he just leave it alone and not tell me untill i could think right!?
im not being a controlling female but when he has me and a duaghter to suport and you been thuoght as much crap i have wiht drugs then you really dont wnat to live like that again. i seen my family people close to me get beat up, get knife pulled on them in front of sthere two year olds, my brother had to go to a metal hospital from a year and now crazy by the state cant work he 24 years old and cant handle his own money cause he doesnt understand how too cause the drugs. ive seen him go thought epicsodes where the voice tell him he gay and to paint his nails , to kill his himself and his family.one of my good friends my family just died over a drug overdose. so yea im not being comrtol drugs f***** up my life and i dont want it around any more he knew this when he got with me. he knew the way i would react. i told him up front. so go f*** your self you pro drug loving hippie. F*** OFF. WHEN YOU HAVE S*** LIKE THAT HAPPEN TO YOU THEN YOU CAN PUT IN YOUR TWO CENTS!
Actually I can, everyone has had experiences like that once in their lives, and you sound like a controlling female, sooner or later, your child will do the same. How am I a pro drug loving hippy?
You have some serious thinking to do..and some serious action to take. Addiction to drugs, alcohol or any other thing that impares the mind to where its harmful to oneself and to others is something that requires intervention by a professional..and sometimes even that doesn't work if the person who is addicted doesn't at least TRY and help themselves. You can't make your boyfriend change. Only HE can choose what direction he wants to take his life. Whether it be with you or alone. What else can be said to you but that you have to start by doing something..some action on your part. Don't just talk the talk..walk the walk. Get out of the situation and make a better life for your child. Easier said then done..but there are alternatives and resources for women like yourself. You have internet capabilities so get on and start researching and get informed and educated on what you can do. You can find daycare for your son and you can get education to get the job that will help you make the money you need to make a life for your son and you. Get empowered. Do something.