men are idoits!!!!!!!!!!!
gosh men are idoits. yesterday my boyfriend just had tell me that he done coke when we frist got together and we were living with his sister. he let me set there at his sister house wondering were he was if he was okay and what not so he can do coke. which he knows thats going to up set me. then to make it wrose he tells me while he drunk. he not supose to drink any more. we just got into a huge fright about it last weekend and we broke up. we just got back together. so i was pretty upset that he was drinking and then he tells me that knowing im upset. its like he has to make it wrose. befor he even trys to make it better. im so upset i dont know what i should say or if im even have a right to be mad about he doing coke.
god why couldnt he just leave it alone and not tell me untill i could think right!?
god why couldnt he just leave it alone and not tell me untill i could think right!?
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Permalink Reply by Beverly on -
Well in my opinion I think you should be aware of what he's doing if he's your boyfriend. No need to be in the dark about what he's using. If your NOT mad that he's doing coke..you SHOULD be. If he's drinking to excess and he's drunk all the time..then you should be mad at him for that too. My question is why did you get back together with him if you don't like what he's doing? Perhaps you should evaluate how you want this relationship to progress. Don't settle for anything less then someone who is going to respect you enough to be honest and to treat you the way you deserve to be treated. Having your significant other drunk or using all the time is no picnic in the park. This is just my opinion. I sincerely hope things get better for you.
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Permalink Reply by Rebekah Kaye on -
cause right now im 8 months pregant with his baby. which addeds too it all. then its just harder then i thought to go throw our stuff and divied it up. i love him. idk your right i shouldnt settle for anything.
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Permalink Reply by Beverly on
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The thing is..in my opinion..are you and the baby going to benefit from someone who is constantly drinking and using coke? Because if he's done it once as he said..he's probably still using. I know you love him and you want things to be perfect. But now not only do you have to be kind to yourself but you have a baby who is soon going to be in the picture. The baby needs a true father..not someone who is going to be drunk and high. Perhaps you need to get tough on him and tell him in no uncertain terms just what you expect from the relationship. Just my opinion! :) Its harder to do then said but in the long run..you and the baby deserve nothing but the best.
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Permalink Reply by Shona on -
you need to leave him, i saw your 8 months pregnant with his baby, but seriously would you ever want to leave the baby with him if you had to go out? Do you trust him? Are you happy? By the sound of it you aint happy so why stay with him if your going to feel like this?
You may love him but loving him doesnt seem to making you happy. If you feel like you cant cope with the baby on your own, maybe get some help from family members.
Leave this guy and tell him if he wants to see his kid, he has to get his act together and sort himself out. If he tells you that you can't stop him from seeing his child, think about what the law would say about it. Seriously leaving a child with someone who is known to do coke and get drunk isn't good.
Think about what's best for you and your baby instead of him
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Permalink Reply by Bucket on -
If you are going to fake being a teenage idiot, you could at least do it proper.
you overact the spelling errors to the point where it's clear you are probably just some dateless loser trying to get people to call you an idiot.
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Permalink Reply by ImHappy1dering on -
Not only is he an idiot.
But I'm thinking that you are too.
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Permalink Reply by Jaime on -
Wow, he seems like he's really ready to be a father. You should stay with him. It'll be amazing for you and your baby. It'll grow up to be a healthy, well adjusted, contributing member of society with such an upstanding citizen for a father.
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Permalink Reply by Tanya on -
I think Beverly has given you some good advice and you should think long and hard about what is right for you and your baby. Sounds like he isn't mature enough yet for a family. Don't let anyone else drag you down.
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Permalink Reply by Rebekah Kaye on
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go frist who are you talking to? and if your talking to me i am a teenager im only 19 and as for the spelling errors im dislexic im sorry i have a learning disabilty and cant spell ever thing right. you know people really need to think about stuff like that befor the say anything. j******!
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Permalink Reply by Laura on -
i know that i don;t know you, and didn't have the same exact situation you are going thru. my "fiance", if i even call him that anymore, "used" to do coke. i was at the parties and like an idiot i even helped deliver it to people. trust me, until they get professional help to stop, they wont. i've done everything that i can do to get mine to stop. he's going to jail in november so he'll have to stop then, but until then i have no idea. please do what's best for you. if you're sick and tired of it, then leave. think about your baby. it need you. i wish i had the guts to leave mine, but there has been violence in the past and i'm afraid of it happening again. take it from me. it will be worth it
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Permalink Reply by Shannon C. on -
Men are big idiots, that's for damn sure and their is not very many good one's left at all.
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Permalink Reply by stalefish skater on -
put his ass in a rehab place or something
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