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parents can be a some of a B**** sometimes. 4 example mine. the yell like there is no tommorow. especially whan it comes to money.... i wish they did not yell at me so frecken much!
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Permalink Reply by Beverly on -
Hmmmm. How to respond to this..because I AM a parent myself. A lot of the time when parents yell they are frusterated, stressed out, and sometimes the littlest thing will set them off. I don't yell much. Never saw the point in losing my mind for something someone else did..even if they are my kid. And kids..they CAN be a pain too. Sometimes it would be nice to hear a simple THANK YOU pass the lips of the darlings for money given, rides to where they want to go, and clothes bought for their wardrobes, food bought for their consumption, use of the water and electricity which ain't free. But that stuff is given out of love by the majority of parents. So yeah..yelling by the parent can make them b******....but sometimes being a b**** ain't all that bad..sometimes. When the parent gets to yelling..try putting yourself in their shoes and think..perhaps something could have been done to prevent the yelling.
Some parents aren't good parents. There are some that should NOT have had kids in the first place. But for the most part..most parents try to be good ones..and kids do not come with instructions. I just want to say, I love my son and daughter. I would kill for them and they would do the same for me. -
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Permalink Reply by Jaime on -
I''ll bet you $1000 that no matter how much you think they're yelling at you for no reason, they have a perfectly good and logical reason for doing so.
Probably because you're a teenager and do not understand the value of money these days, and most likely, you ask for way more than you even deserve. Don't feel bad, most teenage girls are greedy little whores.
But give your parents a break. They have to deal with you.
OH, and it's "Son of a B****" -
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Permalink Reply by Tara Dane on -
Well, as a parent of teenagers, I can honestly say, that in your parents mind, there is a reason they are yelling. I completely agree with Beverly, that some people should not have been parents, but for the most part parents do the best they can. It's not easy. Gosh, it wasn't easy for me when I was a teen, and I was a wild one! I was always being yelled at or grounded. I didn't like my parents, always said I hated them. I moved out one week after graduating high school. Moving out of the house wasn't enough, I moved out of the country too. So I do understand where you are coming from. However, now being on the other side of that argument, I see that there are reasons. With my son's, they don't realize what things cost, or the dangers in some other their actions. Thinking back, I didn't either at there age. So even though you think you hate your parents, it's pretty normal at your age to do so. It's also pretty normal for them to be yelling (this does not include hitting!) Since you say it's about money, I have to ask more questions. Such as, is it about money you want for stuff, or money you have spent, or just the fact that they don't have enough in general? If it's about you and your spending habits or wanting the money for stuff. Maybe you could try a slightly different approach. Such as, you know I'd like to buy such and such and I know it's going to cost me $100.00. Do you think we can sit down for a few minutes and try to come up with an acceptable plan for me to earn the $100.00? You may have to do extra chores, things that your folks are doing, but would love to get out of doing. Or maybe they'll agree to let you get a part time job. Sometimes approaching the subject, with the info in hand, and asking for advice on solutions will avoid the instant eruption. On the other hand, if it's because they generally don't have enough money for normal living expenses. This is not anything you can control. This is part of the adult/parental frustration and they really shouldn't be subjecting you to it. It's hard enough being a teen in today's society, you shouldn't have to deal with adult problems. Just my two cents, and I hope it had given you a little bit to think about. {hugs to you}
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Permalink Reply by Tanya on -
I totally agree with the 3 people above me. I couldn't have said all those things better myself. As a mother of a 14 year old girl and a 24 year old boy, I put up with a lot of grief from my kids. As you mature, you'll realize where your parents were coming from. They have a lot of stuff to deal with on a daily basis. A lot more than a teenager. Try to be understanding, appreciate everything they do for you and show them that you appreciate it. Help them out with chores etc, and don't think the world revolves around you because it doesn't. If you are old enough to get a job, do it. Earn your own money. We are in hard times right now with gas and oil prices etc. It's hard to stretch a dollar and when I've figured out all my bills, then my daughter comes to me and begs me for money for something, I get a little bitchy myself.
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Permalink Reply by Rebecca on -
Hey unforunatly parents are parents.They fight and yell.It's what they do.
Ya I hate when I get yelled at but hell what can you do?
And I hate when you ask a simple request for permission to go someplace and they fight and fight for you to not go.Hell we took 3 hours to convince my friend's mom to let her go out today. -
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Permalink Reply by Adrienne on -
lol. I argued for two months to be allowed to go to a concert once. i argued right up until the time the concert would've ended. didn't do me any good.
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Permalink Reply by Illusion on -
muahaha!!! Theyll slice you to pieces and ground u for a lifetime!
heh just jokin :D -
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