They both have very endearing qualities, that i like.Joel seems to have a strong sense of family these days, not that Benji doesn't, just Joel is a parent and as one myself makes him more relateable in someways.Benji is like a beautiful,yet messy windstorm, which i can also relate to.As for looks which was the question at hand,they are both nice on the eye,but i will NEVER tell.haha